Introduction
When facing an unexpected pregnancy, thoughts begin to rush into your mind. What will I do? What should I say? What is the next step? This relatable blog is about the questions, emotions, and hard decisions that many unexpectant women are faced with as they see a positive pregnancy test.
A Positive Test
Something didn’t seem right. You took a pregnancy test, and it was positive. Many times the first overwhelming emotion that hits is fear. Questions like “What will I do?”, “How or why am I in this situation?”, “What will he say?”, and “What will they think?” come to mind. The last thing you want to feel at this moment is judgment or criticism from outside voices. You already feel enough pressure and stress without other people’s opinions.
Unplanned
Let’s face it, you weren’t planning on being in this situation. Maybe you’re in shock and trying to find a way to navigate, or even escape this reality. When you consider your education, finances, and relationships you cannot imagine a new baby fitting into the picture. You hope to finish school, enjoy your youth & freedom, travel abroad, etc. Your options seem limited at best. Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like there is an option.
Difficulties Ahead?
When you imagine becoming a parent or adding another mouth to feed, you can’t help but think of the difficulties that may occur. Our world seems to be in shambles and childcare is expensive. Continuing a pregnancy and raising a child seems like an impossible, overwhelming task you don’t want to tackle. You may feel like the only option you have is an abortion.
Your Feelings Are Valid
If you were to continue this pregnancy, how would you do it? Where could you find the support, finances, and various resources it would take to actually raise a child in today’s economy? Aside from economical & practical needs, how would you parent them? These concerns are VALID, and you are not alone in thinking these things! Give yourself time! Time to process, time to evaluate and consider what your options actually are. Breathe.
What If?
Now, ask yourself the “What if” questions:
What if I take it one day at a time?
What if I confirm the pregnancy and gather all the facts first?
What if my partner, parents, or even grandparents are willing to help?
What if there is a community ready to support me — with resources not just for the baby, but for me too?
Allow Yourself to Dream!
Maybe you COULD get the degree while raising a baby. Maybe this baby would bring joy, hope, and inspiration to your life. Allow yourself to dream, to imagine a scenario where abortion isn’t the only option to this life-changing pregnancy test you are staring at.
Adoption?
Maybe you know that you do not have the support it will take but want to see this pregnancy through and choose adoption rather than raising the child yourself. According to AmericanAdoptions.com, nearly two million couples in America are waiting and hoping to adopt a baby. In many programs, birth parents have the opportunity to choose the adoptive family for their child.
The Next Step
Everyone says, “One step at a time.” Well, what is the first step? Where can you start? Choices Clinic in Stephenville, TX, has advocates who would love to hear your story, help with resources, and provide you with information and options as you are navigating through this decision. No judgement, no criticism, just love & an open ear to allow you to process everything you are facing!
Free & Confidential Appointment
It all starts with connection—a simple phone call, or an appointment scheduled through the website. All services are completely free and confidential, helping to lessen the stress and anxiety of any financial burden.
Conclusion
Although abortion is an option, it is not the only way. It might be the first thing that comes to mind, but it doesn’t have to be the last. There are many parents who have chosen life for their child and find a new level of love, joy, and purpose. There is hope in life, there is hope in your future, and Choices would love to be a small step in helping you along the way.
Because we are pro-woman and a non-profit, we do not provide or refer for abortion services.
FREE & Confidential Services & Resources offered at Choices Clinic include the following:
Pregnancy testing
Limited Ultrasounds
STI Testing and Treatments
Material items needed for baby & mom(such as diapers, wipes, maternity clothing etc…)
Parenting Classes & more!
Choices Clinic is conveniently located at
775 S. Harbin Drive, Stephenville, TX 76401
Feel free to call or schedule a free, confidential appointment online.
Phone number: 833-773-3001
Website: Choicesclinic.net
